{"id":1697,"date":"2019-06-13T11:44:00","date_gmt":"2019-06-13T09:44:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/?p=1697"},"modified":"2025-03-26T23:11:46","modified_gmt":"2025-03-26T21:11:46","slug":"my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/","title":{"rendered":"My Life in Italy, Part 2: Where are the Walls? and How do I Flush?"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 12<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1400\" height=\"500\" data-attachment-id=\"1820\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/my-life-in-italy-part-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2.png\" data-orig-size=\"1400,500\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Where are the Walls and How do I Flush?&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Where are the Walls and How do I Flush?&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-1024x366.png\" src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2.png?fit=1024%2C366&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1820\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2.png 1400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-300x107.png 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-768x274.png 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-1024x366.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-1240x443.png 1240w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-860x307.png 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-680x243.png 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-500x179.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-400x143.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-250x89.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-200x71.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-100x36.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-76x27.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-2-50x18.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1400px) 100vw, 1400px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>So<\/strong>&#8230; I left off in <a href=\"\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-1\/\">Part 1 on my first full day in Italy in 1983<\/a>.  I am at the tip of the boot in Reggio Calabria, suffering severe jet lag, having walked miles and miles for an awful cafeteria meal, and now I am boarding a train that looks like it was just brought out of a 1920&#8217;s junkyard.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-1\/\">&lt;&lt; Back to Part 1, The Warm Table<\/a> if you missed it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But now we are on our way to Rocco&#8217;s hometown of Gioiosa Ionica&#8230; a place of beach, sun &amp; fun.   Stop!   I know you are still trying to pronounce the name of the town.  Repeat after me:  Joy-Oh-Sa Yo-Knee-Kha.  Gioiosa means Joyous, and Ionica means &#8220;of the Ionian Sea.&#8221;  So we are heading off to the Joyous place on the Ionian sea. Awesome, right? OK, Language lesson over.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"392\" data-attachment-id=\"1821\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/beach\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"2560,981\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Gioiosa Ionica Beach\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Beach in Gioiosa Ionica&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Beach in Gioiosa Ionica&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-1024x392.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-1024x392.jpg\" alt=\"Gioiosa Ionica Beach\" class=\"wp-image-1821\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-1024x392.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-300x115.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-768x294.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-1920x736.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-1680x644.jpg 1680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-1240x475.jpg 1240w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-860x330.jpg 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-680x261.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-500x192.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-400x153.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-250x96.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-200x77.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-100x38.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-76x29.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/beach-50x19.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>Beach in Gioiosa Ionica<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I will be staying at Rocco&#8217;s place.  I am dreaming of the eventual bed I will soon come in contact with and chilling out at the beach tomorrow.  That is, if this train can make it there, wherever <em>there<\/em> is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rocco, Dom, Enzo and I hop on the train, and sit as I wait to see if this thing can even move.  We are on old wooden benches that face each other, and you can see that back in the 1920&#8217;s there was some concept of style in the faded curtains I am looking at, maybe?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1822\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/train-bench\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1600,1200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.8&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;DMC-FZ1&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1086537264&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.6&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;200&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.02&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"train-bench\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-1024x768.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench.jpg?fit=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1822\" width=\"247\" height=\"186\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-1240x930.jpg 1240w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-860x645.jpg 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-680x510.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-250x188.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-200x150.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-76x57.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/train-bench-50x38.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 247px) 100vw, 247px\" \/><figcaption>Luxury &amp; Comfort Defined<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So we start moving.  The train, in fact, moves. Check!  But I quickly learn that suspension is another one of history&#8217;s greatest inventions, and this train was built <em>before<\/em> that invention. I also noted that the saying &#8220;<em>So smooth, it is like riding on rails<\/em>&#8221; was <strong>not<\/strong> coined by someone that had been riding <em>this<\/em> train, on <em>these<\/em> wooden seats&#8230;  Whatever, there is a bed in my future.  Maybe I can find a way to get comfortable enough for a little rest on the train.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Of_course_not_The_Adventure_is_Just_Beginning\" >Of course not.  The Adventure is Just Beginning!<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#You_Cant_Help_But_Love_Enzo\" >You Can&#8217;t Help But Love Enzo!<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Hey_Rocco_where_are_the_walls\" >Hey Rocco, where are the walls?<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Wall-Free_Buildings_Have_a_Purpose_sorta\" >Wall-Free Buildings Have a Purpose (sorta)<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#The_Arrival\" >The Arrival<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#I_digress%E2%80%A6\" >I digress&#8230;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Is_a_Petting_Zoo_somewhere_missing_a_goat\" >Is a Petting Zoo somewhere missing a goat?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Nonna\" >Nonna<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#%E2%80%9CBig%E2%80%9D_Rocco\" >&#8220;Big&#8221; Rocco<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Little_Rocco\" >Little Rocco<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Uncle_Vinny\" >Uncle Vinny<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#Uncle_Peppe\" >Uncle Peppe<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#La_Casa_Della_Nonna\" >La Casa Della Nonna<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#How_do_I_Flush\" >How do I Flush?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#The_Takeaway\" >The Takeaway<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-4' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/#I_would_love_to_see_your_thoughts_and_comments_below\" >I would love to see your thoughts and comments below!<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Of_course_not_The_Adventure_is_Just_Beginning\"><\/span>Of course not.  The Adventure is Just Beginning!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, I am really tired.  Rocco and Dom are chill&#8230; but then there is Enzo.  He has more energy than I would get after a good night&#8217;s sleep and 10 cups of coffee.  And he is sitting there with&#8230; An American.  That speaks no Italian.  And Enzo speaks no English.  But none of that matters, because Enzo figures we will invent some kind of sign language and communicate on a whole new level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First things first.  I trust he knew my name before we got on the train, but this was the time to strike up a conversation about it.  Because, you know&#8230; it is 1983, and my name is Michael. And in the middle of nowhere on a train rattling through southern Italy, that can mean only <strong>one<\/strong> thing:  <strong>Michael Jackson<\/strong>.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1823\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/michael_jackson\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"775,1000\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"michael_jackson\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1823\" width=\"235\" height=\"302\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson.jpg 775w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-233x300.jpg 233w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-768x991.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-680x877.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-500x645.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-400x516.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-200x258.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-100x129.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-76x98.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/michael_jackson-50x65.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 235px) 100vw, 235px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That is pretty much the first half hour of our conversation: Blah Blah Blah Michael Jackson, Blah blah Michael Jackson&#8230; blah blah blah Michael Jackson. Michael. Jackson. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am sitting here thinking, OK&#8230; I have the single most common first name in the English language, and so does Michael Jackson. What are the odds? But to Enzo, this was a really big deal, because now he knew <strong>one <\/strong>of the <strong>two<\/strong> Michaels in the world!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So to get the full sense of what I am talking about, as you continue to read this post, every so often, feel free to randomly scream out <strong>MICHAEL JACKSON<\/strong> on your own.  Go ahead, insert it anywhere you like!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_Cant_Help_But_Love_Enzo\"><\/span>You Can&#8217;t Help But Love Enzo!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He was just so nice.  I really tried to engage him, so on the train ride, I was able to get out my Walkman (remember, it is 1983, ok), and actually let him hear some Michael Jackson. He was also very interested in all of the other music I had, so I had my chance to turn him on to Devo, The B-52&#8217;s, Ultravox, Siouxsie &amp; The Banshees, Talk Talk, and of course The Talking Heads. I don&#8217;t think he was ready for another Michael, so I left my Wham! (<em>George<\/em> Michael) tape in the bag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The funny thing here is that Rocco actually lived across the street from Michael Jackson, and we went to school with Janet Jackson, so Rocco would chime in from time to time, and that was simply it.  I was to be forever, <strong>Michael Jackson<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hey_Rocco_where_are_the_walls\"><\/span>Hey Rocco, where are the walls?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we talk about Michael Jackson and listen to that latest Spandau Ballet song, I&#8217;m looking outside the train. As we pass small villages on the sea, I look to the right and see nothing but beautiful coastline. On our left, there are villages here and there with dozens and dozens of buildings. Now, what I am seeing are what appear to be brick apartment buildings under construction. But they were not mixed here and there among finished buildings. <strong>They all had no walls<\/strong>. These were not vacant, unfinished buildings. Most of them had people living in them. <strong>Did I mention they had no walls?<\/strong> Or windows? <strong>And people were living in them?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1824\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/no_walls\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"630,328\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"no_walls\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1824\" width=\"276\" height=\"143\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls.jpg 630w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-300x156.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-500x260.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-400x208.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-250x130.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-200x104.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-100x52.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-76x40.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/no_walls-50x26.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 276px) 100vw, 276px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now seriously, picture this:  A 5 story apartment building with no exterior walls.  But you can see dad sitting on the sofa watching TV&#8230;   mom cooking lunch on the stove. The kids are playing in what I would otherwise call a room.  You could see their beds, their lamps, kitchen tables&#8230;  E.V.E.R.Y.T.H.I.N.G.  Now imagine dozens&#8230; no, hundreds of these, everywhere you look.  I&#8217;ll admit that many (not all) had the decency to have a tarp covering some of the more private &#8220;rooms,&#8221; but seriously? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Naturally I ask Rocco and Dom about this unique attribute of local decor, and the answer to my &#8220;Why&#8221; question, was pretty much &#8220;I dunno, that&#8217;s just how it is.&#8221;  naturally asking Enzo would have only resulted in <strong>Michael Jackson!<\/strong>  I have just stepped into The Twilight Zone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Wall-Free_Buildings_Have_a_Purpose_sorta\"><\/span>Wall-Free Buildings Have a Purpose (sorta)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I later learned that there had been a law in the area, stating that you don&#8217;t have to pay property taxes on a building until it is complete, and a building was considered &#8220;complete&#8221; once it had&#8230; you got it, <strong>WALLS<\/strong>. OK, so I am not a politician, but how many milliseconds does it take to change that law to read that the building is complete when you occupy it? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I also later learned that in Italian culture, they have a different Golden Rule.  It goes something like this: Show me a tax, and I\u2019ll show you a loophole. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Moving on&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Arrival\"><\/span>The Arrival<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So it turns out to be 2 1\/2 hours on the train of wall-free buildings, beautiful coastline, and questions about Michael Jackson, since my name makes me the local expert.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1825\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/stazione1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1.png\" data-orig-size=\"703,476\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Stazione1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1825\" width=\"283\" height=\"192\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1.png 703w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-300x203.png 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-680x460.png 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-500x339.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-400x271.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-250x169.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-200x135.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-100x68.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-76x51.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Stazione1-50x34.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 283px) 100vw, 283px\" \/><figcaption>The Gioiosa Ionica Train Station<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we get off the train, I look around, and as I do, my mental capacity for what the world was had to adapt once again. While just hours before, I walked around Reggio Calabria, thinking it was 3rd world, now I am in the town of &#8220;Marina di Gioiosa Ionica,&#8221; and by comparison, Reggio Calabria was an epic metropolis of modern marvels. I look around, and the theme from The Godfather is playing endlessly in my head. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We are picked up at the train station by Rocco&#8217;s Uncle Peppe, and we part ways with Dom and Enzo (<strong>MICHAEL JACKSON!!!!<\/strong>)  Rocco&#8217;s Uncle Peppe drives us to what is about to become my home for the next 10 days.  Until now, I have neglected to mention one of the other things that really had me scratching my head up to now.  And remember, I have been in Italy for less than 24 hours&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1826\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/fiat126\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"700,465\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"fiat126\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1826\" width=\"240\" height=\"159\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-680x452.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-500x332.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-400x266.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-250x166.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-200x133.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-100x66.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-76x50.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/fiat126-50x33.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><figcaption>A Fiat 126 &#8211; The Ferrari of Go Carts?<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why are all the cars so flipping small?<\/strong>  And yet, it was kinda cool.  We hop into Uncle Peppe&#8217;s Fiat 126, which was basically an oversized go-cart with doors, to my Californian eyes. Except that it lacked the raw power of a go-cart or really anything with an engine I had ever experienced.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"I_digress%E2%80%A6\"><\/span>I digress&#8230;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uncle Peppe takes us home.  We drive tiny little roads, which end up as tiny little dirt roads, and slowly I realize we have left &#8220;The City&#8221; as we make our way from &#8220;Marina&#8221; di Gioiosa Ionica to simply good old &#8220;Gioiosa Ionia. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inland, not the &#8220;cool, modern part of town.&#8221;   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Finally, we stop on a dark road, and we get out of the car.  Now I need to paint you a picture.  I am holding my suitcases as I follow Rocco on a dirt path.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To my left, there is a haphazardly planted vegetable garden with chickens walking around and clucking.  To my right, there are some bushes, and about 40 feet in front of me, I see an open door with some light shining through.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is_a_Petting_Zoo_somewhere_missing_a_goat\"><\/span>Is a Petting Zoo somewhere missing a goat?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1827\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/goat\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1600,1200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"goat\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-1024x768.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat.jpg?fit=1024%2C768&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1827\" width=\"207\" height=\"155\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-1240x930.jpg 1240w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-860x645.jpg 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-680x510.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-250x188.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-200x150.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-76x57.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/goat-50x38.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 207px) 100vw, 207px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I walk toward it until I need to pause for the goat to cross the path.  <strong>The goat<\/strong>.  WHERE THE &amp;#@! ARE WE????  A random freaking goat.  Seriously?  Turns out, he is Uncle Peppe&#8217;s friend.  A goat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As I approach the door, I am greeted by the family.  They were all in front of the door, standing on a cracked cement pad of sorts, and as I looked around I may as well have been transported 300 years into the past. The family greets me with absolute and utter joy.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let me introduce <strong>you<\/strong> to <strong>them<\/strong>:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Nonna\"><\/span>Nonna<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1828\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/nonna\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"604,453\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"nonna\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1828\" width=\"315\" height=\"237\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna.jpg 604w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-250x188.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-200x150.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-76x57.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/nonna-50x38.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 315px) 100vw, 315px\" \/><figcaption>&#8220;Nonna&#8221; in 1983<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No doubt, the matriarch of the family. An elderly heavyset lady, dressed in a simple tent-style dress with little flowers on it. As simple as simple can be. Her face had the kind of wrinkles that can only come from having lived a long and hard life. But she had an infectious ear to ear smile, and you could see the biggest heart in the world behind her eyes. In an instant, you simply know this is a good woman, period. She is Rocco&#8217;s grandmother, and she welcomed me as though I were her own child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%E2%80%9CBig%E2%80%9D_Rocco\"><\/span>&#8220;Big&#8221; Rocco<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2208\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/big-rocco-closeup\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup.png\" data-orig-size=\"550,546\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"big-rocco-closeup\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2208\" width=\"277\" height=\"276\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup.png 550w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-300x298.png 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-500x496.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-400x397.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-250x248.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-200x199.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-100x100.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-76x75.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/big-rocco-closeup-50x50.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 277px) 100vw, 277px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rocco&#8217;s dad (Nonna&#8217;s son). I had met him in the states, so it was a familiar face. Now, don&#8217;t let the word &#8220;Big&#8221; fool you. If I had to guess, Big Rocco was <em>maybe<\/em> 5&#8242; tall at best, and about 4 feet wide&#8230; and bald. Picture that with yet another ear to ear smile, and an exceedingly thick Italian accent, you now have a picture of Big Rocco.  A cross between Joe Pesci and Danny Devito!  But somehow, you also knew that you never wanted to see that smile turn into a frown. <strong>Never!<\/strong> To keep things straight, my friend Rocco was known in the family as &#8220;Little Rocco&#8221;, or &#8220;Rocch\u00edo&#8221;. OK, got it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Little_Rocco\"><\/span>Little Rocco<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1834\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/rocco\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"604,453\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"rocco\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1834\" width=\"284\" height=\"213\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco.jpg 604w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-250x188.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-200x150.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-100x75.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-76x57.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/rocco-50x38.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 284px) 100vw, 284px\" \/><figcaption>Little Rocco: 1983 in Gioiosa<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Or just &#8220;Rocco&#8221;, or &#8220;Rock&#8221; to me had been a close friend of mine in school.  At the time, he was just a friend, but as this story proceeds over the many anticipated parts to come, Rocco quickly became a dear friend, and then a brother from another mother, and to this day my dearest lifelong friend and brother for 37+ years.  He is so much more than that, because I owe my life to Rocco, as he is a major contributor to what my life has become today, how I think, and how I view the world.  Rocco was the first person to truly open my mind to things I could never imagine and continued to do so for many years.   But until this day, Rocco was both a friend and &#8220;just another dude from L.A. as far as I was concerned.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Uncle_Vinny\"><\/span>Uncle Vinny<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2209\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/vinnie\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie.png\" data-orig-size=\"1074,878\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"vinnie\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-1024x837.png\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie.png?fit=1024%2C837&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2209\" width=\"279\" height=\"228\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie.png 1074w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-300x245.png 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-768x628.png 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-1024x837.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-860x703.png 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-680x556.png 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-500x409.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-400x327.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-250x204.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-200x164.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-100x82.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-76x62.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/vinnie-50x41.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 279px) 100vw, 279px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m not making this up, I promise!  I know how this is all sounding, but I am serious.  Uncle Vinny was Big Rocco&#8217;s little brother, and Little Rocco&#8217;s Big Uncle.  Nonna&#8217;s Little Boy.  Vinny is the tallest in the family but was proof positive that that infectious smile is clearly a family trait.  As with Big Rocco, I kinda knew Uncle Vinny from the States.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Uncle_Peppe\"><\/span>Uncle Peppe<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2210\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/uncle-peppe\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe.png\" data-orig-size=\"538,770\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"uncle-peppe\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2210\" width=\"231\" height=\"331\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe.png 538w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-210x300.png 210w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-500x716.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-400x572.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-250x358.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-200x286.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-100x143.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-76x109.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/uncle-peppe-50x72.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He is the man that picked us up at the train platform.  Uncle Peppe is Nonna&#8217;s brother.  Very thin, but like Nonna, he had the weathered face that was proof positive of a hard life.  He was also very quiet, which differentiated him from the rest of the family.  He always looked as though he was deep in thought, quietly solving the world&#8217;s problems.  But in hindsight, I think he was mostly just thinking about his goat.  Uncle Peppe also had a lit cigarette permanently affixed to his right hand, or so it seemed.  Still, he had that smile that was a dead giveaway that he was family.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These people welcomed me as though I was their child that had just come home from war.  I am not kidding, I had never in my life experienced such hospitality.  Frankly, I didn&#8217;t know it existed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_Casa_Della_Nonna\"><\/span>La Casa Della Nonna<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It was time to get the lay of the land, and Rocco (Little Rocco) was up to the task.  I remember Rocco telling me things were a little different than what I was accustomed to. OK, whatever that means, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I walk into the door that had been in front of me. I am in a single room that is roughly 150 square feet. Immediately to my left there is a little stove. To the right of it, there is an old wooden table with several chairs around it. At the &#8220;far&#8221; end there is a single bed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2212\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/emilia\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia.png\" data-orig-size=\"1682,1296\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"emilia\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-1024x789.png\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia.png?fit=1024%2C789&amp;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2212\" width=\"308\" height=\"237\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia.png 1682w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-300x231.png 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-768x592.png 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-1024x789.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-1680x1294.png 1680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-1240x955.png 1240w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-860x663.png 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-680x524.png 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-500x385.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-400x308.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-250x193.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-200x154.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-100x77.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-76x59.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/emilia-50x39.png 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 308px) 100vw, 308px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Left of the bed there is a tiny refrigerator, with an old black and white TV on top. Hanging from the middle of the room, there is a frayed wire with a dim light bulb attached. The surrounding walls are fading white paint, and in one spot, there is a calendar hanging from a rusty nail with a picture of the Virgin Mary on it. There is another door that leads outside on the left. No other furniture, no other pictures on that wall. Nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is the sum of it. The one-room is &#8220;Nonna&#8217;s house.&#8221; Decades before &#8220;Tiny Houses,&#8221; Nonna had it going on! But even &#8220;Tiny Houses&#8221; have a kitchen sink and a bathroom, right? Wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rocco next brought me outside to the left. On the exterior wall outside of Nonna&#8217;s house was a giant cement sink with an old rusty faucet. This was the kitchen sink, the bathroom sink, and the &#8220;washing machine&#8221;. Even the soap was a big, gigantic bar of &#8220;something&#8221; that she apparently made herself.  That &#8220;something,&#8221; I later learned was pig fat.  What was I thinking?  Don&#8217;t we all wash up with bacon?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>And if I need to use a restroom? Maybe a shower?<\/strong> Have no fear&#8230; Rocco has it covered. He led me over to another area outside of the house and opened a door to a room that was clearly an afterthought add-on room.  <strong>Eureka!  A Toilet!<\/strong>  Rocco was very quick to warn me that while I am free to use it for my \u201cneeds,\u201d I cannot <em>flush<\/em> this toilet.  Ummmmm&#8230;  and&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"How_do_I_Flush\"><\/span>How do I Flush?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rocco demonstrated that <em>before<\/em> I used the toilet, I had to grab that red bucket outside under the sink, fill it from the faucet, walk it to the &#8220;bathroom,&#8221; and once I was done doing by &#8220;business&#8221; dump the bucket in the toilet. He was also kind enough to let me know if my &#8220;business&#8221; was serious, I might need to repeat the process a couple of times. Check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1835\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-2-where-are-the-walls-and-how-do-i-flush\/attachment\/bucket\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"500,500\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"bucket\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1835\" width=\"239\" height=\"239\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-250x250.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-200x200.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-76x76.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/bucket-50x50.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 239px) 100vw, 239px\" \/><figcaption>Buckets have so many uses!<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>And when I want to shower?<\/strong> The bathroom conveniently has a drain in the floor, and the bucket was quite large, after all. I am really, really tired now. Nothing even phases me by this point. Check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s head to the bedroom<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So by now I have seen that Nonna lives in a 150 sq.ft all in one Bedroom\/kitchen\/family room (The ultimate open floor plan), the water source is a cement sink outside that the chickens might be occupying, and that I might bump into a goat on my way to the bathroom with my bucket of toilet-flush water. By now, if Rocco tells me a patch of dirt behind the house is where I will sleep, well&#8230; you get to a point in which nothing can surprise you anymore, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rocco guides me to a staircase around the side of the house. As I carry my suitcases up, we pass through what I could only describe as the attic. It was a room above the house where the essentials were stored. You know, the salami and the olives, of course. There was other stuff in there too, but the aroma was all about the salami and olives. 37 years later, I remember that aroma very fondly like it was yesterday. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We walk through the room, into another room with two beds and a nightstand. Oh, and more salami and olives, thank you very much!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The room was unfinished, lacking paint on the walls, and the ceiling was made of unfinished logs. The beds were iron-frames with lumpy wool mattresses. If you would slap your hand on one, a plume of dust would have attacked you, and if you kneeled down to look at the mattresses from the side, you would notice that lacking any support system other than a thin net, they formed a subtle \u201cU\u201d shape. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I finally lay down to sleep, exhausted beyond belief. Rocco turns out the light, and as I lay on my back in my \u201cU\u201d bed, I\u2019m thinking this must be what it feels like to sleep in a hammock&#8230;  well, a <em>lumpy<\/em> hammock, at least. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hmmmm&#8230; Looking up, I can clearly see little patches of sky through unsealed portions of the log roof. <em>What do they do when it rains?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Click tick tzk click tzk tick creek tzk zzk click tzk&#8230;  <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>A loud and constant crackling sound coming from above.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Michael: <strong>\u201cHey Rocco? What\u2019s that noise?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rocco: <strong>\u201cDon\u2019t worry Mikey, it&#8217;s just termites in the roof\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Michael: <strong>\u201c\u2018K, \u2018Night\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Takeaway\"><\/span>The Takeaway<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As I promised in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-1\/\">Part 1<\/a>, I would end each post with something of a moral to the story, or at minimum,  how what I describe in the post changed my life forever in some way and made me who I am today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You will find that I will often use the term &#8220;Luxury of Experience,&#8221; which is the concept that our company, <a href=\"\/\">Culture Discovery Vacations<\/a> started with.  I had been a rich kid snob that dressed out of GQ, stayed in 5 Star Hotels, and to me luxury directly equated with money.  But <strong>Luxury of Experience<\/strong> is something altogether different. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This afternoon, I traveled on a rickety old train and saw things I could hardly wrap my head around.  I spent a great deal of time befriending someone with whom I had nothing at all in common, and we somehow figured out how to use our hands to communicate.  I found myself a welcome guest in a home that I might otherwise have expected only to see in National Geographic.  This L.A. kid was welcomed by a family 8,000 miles away in a kind of hospitality that I had never experienced, and will never forget.  What is the 5 Star hotel worth when I have Rocco&#8217;s Nonna welcoming me in her home?<strong>  And did I mention the goat?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Wall-free homes, outdated trains, chickens (and the goat!), bacon-soap, a shower and toilet-flushing bucket, some very loud termites, and a wonderful, warm and loving family.  <strong>It was perfect!<\/strong>  I don&#8217;t know yet, but the core of my existence is changing, and tomorrow we are gonna hit the beach!  or are we?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-3-scratch-your-balls-13-times-and-never-make-eye-contact-with-the-witch\/\">Continue on to Part 3, <strong>\u201cScratch Your Balls 13 Times and never make eye contact with the Witch\u201d<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Till then, I will leave you with one final thought: <strong>Michael Jackson!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"I_would_love_to_see_your_thoughts_and_comments_below\"><\/span>I would love to see your thoughts and comments below!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n<div class=\"kk-star-ratings kksr-auto kksr-align-left kksr-valign-bottom\"\n    data-payload='{&quot;align&quot;:&quot;left&quot;,&quot;id&quot;:&quot;1697&quot;,&quot;slug&quot;:&quot;default&quot;,&quot;valign&quot;:&quot;bottom&quot;,&quot;ignore&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;reference&quot;:&quot;auto&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;count&quot;:&quot;6&quot;,&quot;legendonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;readonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;score&quot;:&quot;4.5&quot;,&quot;starsonly&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;best&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;gap&quot;:&quot;5&quot;,&quot;greet&quot;:&quot;Rate this post&quot;,&quot;legend&quot;:&quot;4.5\\\/5 - (6 votes)&quot;,&quot;size&quot;:&quot;24&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;My Life in Italy, Part 2: Where are the Walls? and How do I Flush?&quot;,&quot;width&quot;:&quot;128&quot;,&quot;_legend&quot;:&quot;{score}\\\/{best} - ({count} {votes})&quot;,&quot;font_factor&quot;:&quot;1.25&quot;}'>\n            \n<div class=\"kksr-stars\">\n    \n<div class=\"kksr-stars-inactive\">\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"1\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"2\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"3\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"4\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" data-star=\"5\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n    \n<div class=\"kksr-stars-active\" style=\"width: 128px;\">\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n            <div class=\"kksr-star\" style=\"padding-right: 5px\">\n            \n\n<div class=\"kksr-icon\" style=\"width: 24px; height: 24px;\"><\/div>\n        <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<\/div>\n                \n\n<div class=\"kksr-legend\" style=\"font-size: 19.2px;\">\n            4.5\/5 - (6 votes)    <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So&#8230; I left off in Part 1 on my first full day in Italy in 1983. 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