{"id":2328,"date":"2020-04-27T18:31:08","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T16:31:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/?p=2328"},"modified":"2025-03-26T23:15:35","modified_gmt":"2025-03-26T21:15:35","slug":"my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/","title":{"rendered":"My Life in Italy, Part 9: \u201cAn Italian Love Story\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<span class=\"span-reading-time rt-reading-time\" style=\"display: block;\"><span class=\"rt-label rt-prefix\">Reading Time: <\/span> <span class=\"rt-time\"> 4<\/span> <span class=\"rt-label rt-postfix\">minutes<\/span><\/span>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" data-attachment-id=\"2382\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/attachment\/my-life-in-italy-part-9\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9.png\" data-orig-size=\"1200,675\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-1024x576.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-1024x576.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2382\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-860x484.png 860w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-680x383.png 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-500x281.png 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-400x225.png 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-250x141.png 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-200x113.png 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-100x56.png 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-76x43.png 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9-50x28.png 50w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/My-Life-in-Italy-Part-9.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you are just jumping in here,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-1\/\"><strong>please<\/strong>&nbsp;start with Part 1<\/a>, otherwise, this will just make no sense at all! I mean, seriously&#8230; You can&#8217;t just jump into part 9 of a series, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>September 19, 1984<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;m a month and a half into my 2nd trip to Italy in 1984.  I have made some amazing friends, experienced a culture that caused me to feel more at home than, well&#8230; home.  And now, this girl that I had been friends with suddenly became <strong>more<\/strong> than a friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2347\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/attachment\/michael-gun\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"431,471\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"michael-gun\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2347\" width=\"230\" height=\"251\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun.jpg 431w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-275x300.jpg 275w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-400x437.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-250x273.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-200x219.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-100x109.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-76x83.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-gun-50x55.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 230px) 100vw, 230px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We had just been dining at a friend&#8217;s house and found ourselves kissing passionately, but now the evening is over and I am back at Umberto&#8217;s villa.  Alone. In bed.  In the dark.  Mind racing.  Big Rocco&#8217;s words echo &#8220;What a shit!?!?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2345\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/attachment\/paola-luigina\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"819,518\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"paola-luigina\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2345\" width=\"351\" height=\"221\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-300x190.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-768x486.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-680x430.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-500x316.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-400x253.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-250x158.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-200x126.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-100x63.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-76x48.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/paola-luigina-50x32.jpg 50w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 351px) 100vw, 351px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I really need to get home in a few days and start a life, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">How would I even have a relationship with a girl that lives 8,000 miles away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t want a quick fling.  Not with her.  She is <em>different<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She&#8217;s got to be thinking the same thing.  It was the wine.  Tomorrow we will see each other and back-peddle what just happened, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But I really, really like her.  I can see this as being something <strong>real<\/strong>, but how?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, nobody has ever accused me of giving up on anything as impossible, so I am in and we will figure this out.  But surely she will realize how insane this would be.  I&#8217;ll see her in town, we&#8217;ll talk, and she will surely be the voice of reason.  You know, I am expecting <em>&#8220;Hey&#8230;. about last night&#8230; ummm&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/#The_Morning_After\" >The Morning After<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/#Mrs_TWA_Airlines_Lady_its_Michael_again\" >Mrs. TWA Airlines Lady, it&#8217;s Michael again<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/#The_Next_Few_Weeks_Were_a_Blur\" >The Next Few Weeks Were a Blur<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/#The_Takeaway\" >The Takeaway<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Morning_After\"><\/span>The Morning After<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wake up, and there is only one thing on my mind.  Paola.  OK, two things:  <em>Paola and Coffee<\/em>.  I get up, get coffee, get showered, get dressed and get up to town.  In my mind, that entire process lasted about 12 seconds&#8230;. OK, 42 seconds.  I needed to make coffee.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is it.  I will see her, and it will have been a &#8220;mistake.&#8221;  But we will <em>stay friends<\/em>, of course. Blah Blah Blah.  We all know how that conversation goes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I get into town and see her come out of the door of her house.  I was on the other side of the Piazza and started walking toward her ready for that ever-so-uncomfortable talk, of course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everything I describe here actually happened in ultra-slow motion, of course.  She starts walking toward me, and I am looking at her, sizing her up, reading the body language, trying to get a sense of it all.  I know what she will say, and I&#8217;ll just be cool.  I mean, what else am I gonna do, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But dude!  She&#8217;s wearing this tight leather skirt and a tight leather jacket.  She is walking like a model down a runway.  A spring is in her step. As she gets closer, I notice her hair.  It looked like she had just had it styled, and her makeup with poppin&#8217; red lipstick. And the most amazing, beautiful smile on her face. <strong>DAMN!<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery alignleft columns-1 is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><ul class=\"blocks-gallery-grid\"><li class=\"blocks-gallery-item\"><figure><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"627\" height=\"344\" data-attachment-id=\"2380\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/attachment\/cartoon-eys-1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cartoon-eys-1.gif\" data-orig-size=\"627,344\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"cartoon-eys-1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cartoon-eys-1.gif\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cartoon-eys-1.gif\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"2380\" data-full-url=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/cartoon-eys-1.gif\" data-link=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=2380\" class=\"wp-image-2380\"\/><\/figure><\/li><\/ul><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now picture me with cartoon eyes going <strong><em>BOING!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As we approach each other, she quickly makes it clear to walk somewhere with her.  We cross to the other side of the piazza, walk into a hallway, and as though all part of a complete flow we begin to kiss passionately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Huh?  I must have run the scenario a thousand times in my head, and not one of them went like that.  <strong>Dude!  I can roll with this!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now what?  I honestly have no idea, but I have a call to make!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mrs_TWA_Airlines_Lady_its_Michael_again\"><\/span>Mrs. TWA Airlines Lady, it&#8217;s Michael again<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seriously, I had extended this trip so many times that I was starting to think the airline knew me.  I may be the very reason airlines started initiating ticket rescheduling fees.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>&#8220;No, I don&#8217;t have a return date at the moment, but I will call back when I do&#8221; <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Next_Few_Weeks_Were_a_Blur\"><\/span>The Next Few Weeks Were a Blur<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2344\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/personal\/my-life-in-italy-part-9-an-italian-love-story\/attachment\/michael-paola-eremo\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"700,400\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"michael-paola-eremo\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2344\" width=\"352\" height=\"202\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo.jpg 700w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-300x171.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-680x389.jpg 680w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-500x286.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-400x229.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-250x143.jpg 250w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-200x114.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-100x57.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-76x43.jpg 76w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-50x29.jpg 50w, https:\/\/www.culturediscovery.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/michael-paola-eremo-696x400.jpg 696w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 352px) 100vw, 352px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Seriously, I am floating in heaven, and that is not me!!!!  For one thing, there is a girl back home that <em>thinks<\/em> she is my girlfriend (Annabelle, I am so sorry I was such an ass!!!!), and if you read earlier in this story,  I do not want relationships!  I was the guy that gave you a fake phone number after a one-nighter.  But Paola&#8230;  she was a lightning bolt of energy in my life.  I have never met anyone like her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So the next few weeks looked like a romantic montage of a couple in  frolicking around Tuscany, and the more I was with her, the more I wanted to be with her.  This was different.  This is what they mean when they say &#8220;when you know, you <strong>know<\/strong>.&#8221; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This girl was <strong>real<\/strong>.  I can&#8217;t put my fingers on exactly what it was, but we talked about <em>everything<\/em>, and she had a set of values that I had just never seen in a girl before.  I could be myself.  I could be happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Takeaway\"><\/span>The Takeaway<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Again, if you have read this whole series, you know I come from a very fast paced life, lots of money, and a fair amount of tragedy.  I was a mess.  But all this time I had spent in Italy gave me a peek into something entirely different.  Such real people, such a rich lifestyle through the greatest simplicity.  It felt as though this is who I was, and I had somehow been trapped in the wrong life.  Then Paola becomes an intimate part of this life, and I am, for the first time, seeing what just might be en entirely different future for me.  I am realizing a kind of joy I had never experienced, and I was drawn to it like a bug to light.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that is where I will end this post in the series. 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